One of the most important skills that women can acquire is the ability to say no.  No is a wonderful word that, when used appropriately,  protects us from everything and everyone that should not be in our lives.  Using this word forces us to take responsibility for ourselves.  It allows us to focus on and put our energy into our best life- the life that God has for us.  Saying no allows us to say yes to the dreams and passions God has set within us so that we can do a great work for Him.